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Upended – DNOW / Retreat Study

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Teach Upended at your next event and learn how God dramatically upends our expectations.



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“For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, declares the LORD. For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways and my thoughts than your thoughts.” - Isaiah 55:8–9 

Left to ourselves, we develop our own rules for navigating our lives. We may not write them down or even be aware that we have them. But it’s human nature. As we go through life, interacting with the world around us, we craft pathways for getting ahead. 

We are constantly reinventing ourselves to maintain our image. We have expectations about how we see others and how they see us. The places we go. The people we’re friends with. The people we’re NOT friends with . . . If we’re honest, we have certain expectations for how the world works. But what if we’re wrong?

The simple truth of how God’s Kingdom works is that God dramatically upends our expectations. He turns the wisdom of the world on its head. We see this over and over again in Scripture. We learn that only in our weakness are we truly strong. We learn that real freedom comes from embracing God’s rules. We learn that death can mean life. And we learn that living a life of influence can be achieved through a quiet life and not a loud one. 


Teach Upended at your next event and learn how God dramatically upends our expectations.

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A Complete Event Solution:

4 Small Group Bible Study Lessons

Streamlined, complete, and easy-to-teach Bible study lessons for your volunteer leaders with teacher prep videos

4 Large Group Sermon Outlines

Sermon outlines ensure God's Word is the focus of your event. Choose from simple or detailed options for your speaker to follow.

A Complete Media Package

Session videos to kick off and wrap up your weekend, background loops, presentation images, a countdown clock, artwork and more

Student Bible Study Guide

An essential component for your students to experience maximum impact as it is their small group Bible study material.

4 Devotions for Your Students

Perfect for creating quiet time moments throughout your weekend and are included as part of our Student Bible Study Guides

4-Week, Follow-Up Devotional Journal

Keep your students in God’s Word following your event with our 4-week daily devotional journals as they study God’s Word on their own

Event-Themed T-Shirts

Our classic theme-designed shirts are ready to ship and help you round out a complete event experience for your students

Option for Custom-Designed T-Shirts

For a custom fee, our designers can create something unique to your group

Session Overview

Session 1

What We Want Students to Learn: Students will have their understanding of what it means to be strong upended. As Christ-followers, our strength comes from the Lord and only from the Lord.

Main Scripture: 2 Corinthians 12:7-10; Isaiah 40:28-31

Session Snapshot: Most people see strength as a value. People spend a lot of time exercising to build physical strength. We are inspired when people show mental or emotional strength during challenging circumstances. No one wants to be seen as weak.And yet, in this session, we see Paul celebrating his weakness. Why? Because Paul understands how God upends our definitions of strength. To be strong is to be weak, relying wholly on God for our strength. In this session, your students will grasp this truth and learn how to apply it in their lives.

Session 2

What We Want Students to Learn: Students will have their understanding of God’s rules upended, as they learn that God’s rules offer a life of freedom. Although sin promises freedom, it delivers death.

Main Scripture: Psalm 119:9-16

Session Snapshot: Although students seem to own the market on hating rules, the truth is that everyone gets bogged down by rules. Especially when the rules sound difficult, are hard to understand, or keep us from getting what we want. Sadly, God’s rules often get lumped in to all three categories. Your students will have their understanding of freedom upended as they interact with Scripture. This lesson tackles the question posed in Psalm 119:9, “How can a young man keep his ways pure?” by discussing God’s rules, why they matter, and how they actually give us MORE freedom.

Session 3

What We Want Students to Learn: By examining the narrative of John 11, students will have their expectations upended regarding life, death, and what it means to believe in the promises of God.

Main Scripture: John 11; John 3:16-17

Session Snapshot: It is commonplace in the church to talk about the resurrection of Christ. But what about the resurrection of Lazarus? Sure, the death and resurrection of Lazarus don’t do anything to forgive our sins, but they do display God’s plan for those who put their faith in Him. As your group works through this lesson, students will encounter several verses in John 11 that challenge their understanding of life and death.Most importantly, they will discover God’s plan for His people, and learn why having faith in the One who defeats death is more important than anything else on Earth.

Session 4

What We Want Students to Learn: Students will have their understanding of what it means to be influential upended. Culture says that to have influence, you have to live“loudly.” But God’s way says a life of impact comes through living “quietly.”

Main Scripture: 1 Thessalonians 4:9-12

Session Snapshot: Our culture is pretty noisy, isn’t it? There are a lot of loud voices that surround us. And sometimes, we can be fooled into thinking that to have real influence, we need to be “loud” as well. We share our opinions. We speak without first thinking.We crave the spotlight. We want to have the most followers, the most likes, and the most comments. That’s what you have to do to live a life that matters, right? Not according to the Bible. In 1 Thessalonians, Paul challenges us to live a quiet life, at peace with one another, always mindful of our actions. To live “loudly,” your students must learn to live quietly.

Student Resource Bundles

  • Essential Bundle

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    Interactive Student Book

    Follow-Up Devotional Journal

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    $9.95 per student Retail Price: $10.90 (Save 9%!)
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    Interactive Student Book

    Follow-Up Devotional Journal

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Or Buy Student Resources Individually:

The Upended Student Book is an essential component of your youth ministry event. It serves as the guide for how your students will grow and progress through the weekend. It goes hand-in-hand with your small group lesson plans.

Your youth ministry event is a transformative experience for your students. Equip them to go much deeper in their spiritual journey with the Upended Follow Up Journal. Four weeks of interactive, Bible-centered, and application-oriented content.

These authentic, themed shirts are the hardest part of your event made easier. No more stressing out over all the details. Just give us your sizes and these will show up at your door in no time.

Samples

Sample Lesson and Features

Sample Lesson and Features

Download the first lesson's small group leader guide, Student Book preview, and a lesson overview.

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Media Previews

  • Opening Session Video

    Motion Loop

    Teacher Prep Videos
    Four total teacher prep videos are included (one for each lesson).

  • Closing Session Video

    Countdown Clock