I talk to a lot of youth ministers who have been doing youth ministry a long time. 10 or 15 or 20 years. And the more I talk to these youth ministers, the ones who've really been in the game a while, the more stories I hear of people who at one time or another were completely disillusioned with youth ministry.
They were worn out, beat up, and frustrated. Over-worked. Under-appreciated. And deflated by the general sense that what they were doing may not matter that much in the lives of many of their students.
But, you know what? Instead of walking away they stuck it out. And here's the cool thing: In so many of these stories, the individual WANTED to leave. He or she wanted so badly to call it quits but didn't because he or she didn't feel like God was giving him or her permission to do so. Through prayer, these folks realized that God had not released them from their call. And so, they stuck it out. They GUTTED it out. Sometimes they struggled for years. But now, these youth workers are 3 and 5 and 10 years removed from their low point, still doing youth ministry. Still impacting lives.
You cannot imagine how common this story is. I hear dozens and dozens of iterations of this each year, story after story of men and women who traveled through the rough times and made it through without giving up. The craziest thing is that for many of these folks their situations didn't change. But their perspective did.
I can say beyond a shadow of a doubt that these youth ministers are my favorite ones. There is a richness and depth to them and their ministries that only comes from persevering through the tough times. They have an amazing perspective on life, faith, and ministry. They are collectively the best youth ministry resource I know of.
Are their youth ministries perfect now? Do they feel fully appreciated? Are all of their kids spiritual giants? I doubt it. And I bet they're not immune to the occasional period of doubt or frustration.
But I think the one secret they've learned is that God's true call on their life isn't performance, but faithfulness. And that's a pretty awesome place to be.
So, take encouragement today from their example. If you're in the midst of a trying season, don't give up yet. Pray and listen. And don't make a move until you know it's God's will. God may very well be leading you away from youth ministry. But He may also be leading you to suffer through a period of real trial because He has much, much more to teach you. And He knows that the trials are what will strengthen you for a future of powerful, meaningful ministry.